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<\/a>A college coach once told me: “I love this kid you recommended. I would love to have ten more. But please don’t ever send any more parents like hers because they make my life a living hell.”<\/p>\n
Since that day, I started to include parents in my evaluating process and have, at times, completely backed off prospects whom I believed could cause headaches for a college coach. Knowing I would be working with coaches long after the athletes left the school, I focused more attention on what parents might bring to the coaches’ tables. If they consistently exhibited poor behavior, I had no qualms about moving on to another prospect.<\/p>\n
Types of Bad Sports Parents<\/h2>\n
Over the years, I eventually began to categorize the ones whom I knew from experience would be troublemakers. Here are some of the scary traits of parents I tried\u00a0to avoid:<\/p>\n
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- Yellers &\u00a0Screamers:<\/strong>\u00a0It is one thing to be a fan and support your child, but to continually berate the officials during a contest is something no college coach wants to address with parents.<\/li>\n
- Complainers:<\/strong>\u00a0Parents will complain. It’s the nature of parenting a student-athlete. Still, some not only complain about everything, but they want everyone around them, including the coach, athletes, and parents, to know about it. That is a formula for disaster for a team and college coaches won’t deal with it.<\/li>\n
- Constant Callers:<\/strong>\u00a0When athletes leave home and go to college, coaches know they must watch over and take care of them. Part of that is to help athletes cope with school-related and personal problems. Moreover, coaches know that parents are concerned about their children. But when they call incessantly about every little issue, they become nuisances.<\/li>\n
- Rubber Hammers:<\/strong>\u00a0You know those toy hammers kids receive as gifts? Well, some parents think they have one\u00a0hidden behind them. When a coach makes even a simple mistake, out comes the hammer. Some parents wait for coaching miscues and love nothing better than to wield that toy tool. Their purpose? To criticize the coaches and make them look small in the eyes of the athletes, competitors, and fans. Then they slide back in their seats and wait for the next mistake. This\u00a0approach is a passive-aggressive method which, over time, damages the coach’s reputation and hurts the team. Coaches hate this.\u00a0 So do scouts.<\/li>\n
- The Lone Ranger:<\/strong>\u00a0This is one parent\u00a0who knows it all and can’t wait to spread the word. He or she immediately recognizes the problem with the coach and team and rides into town on a white horse to save the day. The Lone Ranger will not hesitate to tell a coach what’s wrong and, if the coach blows him or her off, will be in the athletic director’s office quicker than you can say, “Where’s Tonto?<\/em>” Coaches despise the Lone Ranger.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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- Complainers:<\/strong>\u00a0Parents will complain. It’s the nature of parenting a student-athlete. Still, some not only complain about everything, but they want everyone around them, including the coach, athletes, and parents, to know about it. That is a formula for disaster for a team and college coaches won’t deal with it.<\/li>\n