{"id":7392,"date":"2013-09-03T16:13:39","date_gmt":"2013-09-03T21:13:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/nsr-inc.com\/blog\/?p=7392"},"modified":"2013-09-03T16:13:39","modified_gmt":"2013-09-03T21:13:39","slug":"in-high-school-athletic-recruiting-how-can-you-really-know-a-college-coach","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.nsr-inc.com\/scouting-news\/in-high-school-athletic-recruiting-how-can-you-really-know-a-college-coach\/","title":{"rendered":"In high school athletic recruiting, how can you really know a college coach?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_5949\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5949\" style=\"width: 190px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/nsr-inc.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Tyler-Bainbridge-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-5949\" alt=\"Choose a program that matches what you really want in a coach and that has teammates you can meld with from Day One.\" src=\"\/\/nsr-inc.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Tyler-Bainbridge-1.jpg\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5949\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Choose a program that matches what you really want in a coach and that has teammates you can meld with from Day One.\u00a0 If not, you will not fit in.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>The recruiting process goes two ways &#8211; the coach wooing the athlete and the athlete choosing a\u00a0coach.\u00a0 But\u00a0everything is not what it always seems during the recruiting process.\u00a0 Time and time again, we see the same story repeated.<\/p>\n<p>How do you know, then, what a coach\u00a0is really like when he\u00a0or she is recruiting you?\u00a0 Hmmm.\u00a0 Well, you can ask other coaches and administrators, of course, but does that spill all the beans?\u00a0\u00a0Probably not.\u00a0 Coaches and school officials are selling candy when they are recruiting athletes.\u00a0 They know what athletes\u00a0need to hear, so many times they\u00a0put the same sugar on the table as everyone else and hope that the packaging will seal the deal.\u00a0\u00a0Yet, if what they were told during the initial recruiting process changes once the athlete is on campus, why\u00a0do\u00a0so many\u00a0recruits transfer after their freshman or sophomore\u00a0years of college?\u00a0 It&#8217;s because\u00a0the athlete didn&#8217;t\u00a0ask themselves\u00a0some\u00a0simple, but tough questions:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Taking away all the fluff and glamor, the hype and the attaboys or attagirls, that is, when I watch this person coach at practice and during games, can I really play\u00a0for him or her?<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0Can I work that hard, or work that little?\u00a0 Can I take that kind of intensity or lack of it?\u00a0 Can I deal with being treated like everybody else instead of the star?<\/li>\n<li><strong>When I talk to\u00a0the players,\u00a0do they share my idea and\u00a0values\u00a0of what college athletics should be about?<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0Are they focused or careless?\u00a0 Are they going through the motions or putting their hearts into it?\u00a0 When the coach isn&#8217;t around, are they respectful or disrespectful?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Why those questions?\u00a0 A coach surrounds himself or herself with the type of people they believe will make them successful and with whom they are most comfortable.\u00a0 That goes for the staff they hire and the players they recruit.\u00a0 If they hire upstanding citizens as coaches that work hard and follow the rules, that&#8217;s who that coach is.\u00a0 If their assistants are disorganized and short on offering players support, that&#8217;s who you will be playing for.\u00a0 If they recruit players that party at all hours, talk trash about the coaches and don&#8217;t go to class, then that&#8217;s who that coach is.\u00a0 If a coach has a lousy graduation rate with his former players, that&#8217;s who that coach is.\u00a0 If assistants drop off a coach&#8217;s staff year after year, that&#8217;s the coach.<\/p>\n<p>Look closely.\u00a0\u00a0Go where you fit.\u00a0 Choose coaches and teams that you will meld with easily.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Don&#8217;t make\u00a0college athletics hard on yourself.\u00a0 It&#8217;s there to have fun, to get an education and to compete with people that you love playing\u00a0alongside and for\u00a0coaches that you want to work hard for every day.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The recruiting process goes two ways &#8211; the coach wooing the athlete and the athlete choosing a\u00a0coach.\u00a0 But\u00a0everything is not what it always seems during the recruiting process.\u00a0 Time and time again, we see the same story repeated. How do you know, then, what a coach\u00a0is really like when he\u00a0or she is recruiting you?\u00a0 Hmmm.\u00a0 &#8230; <a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nsr-inc.com\/scouting-news\/in-high-school-athletic-recruiting-how-can-you-really-know-a-college-coach\/\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":29,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nsr-inc.com\/scouting-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7392"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nsr-inc.com\/scouting-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nsr-inc.com\/scouting-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nsr-inc.com\/scouting-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/29"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nsr-inc.com\/scouting-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7392"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.nsr-inc.com\/scouting-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7392\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7395,"href":"https:\/\/www.nsr-inc.com\/scouting-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7392\/revisions\/7395"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nsr-inc.com\/scouting-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7392"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nsr-inc.com\/scouting-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7392"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nsr-inc.com\/scouting-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7392"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}