{"id":3001,"date":"2011-02-02T08:01:01","date_gmt":"2011-02-02T14:01:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.nsr-inc.com\/\/?p=3001"},"modified":"2011-02-02T08:01:01","modified_gmt":"2011-02-02T14:01:01","slug":"the-parents-recruiting-guide-part-iv-campus-visits","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.nsr-inc.com\/scouting-news\/the-parents-recruiting-guide-part-iv-campus-visits\/","title":{"rendered":"The Parent\u2019s Recruiting Guide, Part IV: Campus Visits"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Getting On Campuses Should Be a High Priority <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.nsr-inc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Girl-on-campus-3.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-3005\" title=\"Girl on campus 3\" src=\"\/\/blog.nsr-inc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Girl-on-campus-3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"297\" height=\"206\" \/><\/a>Look at your kid&#8217;s\u00a0search\u00a0for a college scholarship this way &#8212; it&#8217;s a hands-on, face-to-face\u00a0discovery process.\u00a0 Nothing replaces your kid visiting college campuses and meeting the people who work and reside there.\u00a0 No Web site, friend or advisor&#8217;s opinion, or sweet talk from an admission counselor\u00a0handing out candy can adequately do a campus and coach\u00a0the justice they deserve.<\/p>\n<p>Web sites are marketing tools for colleges meant to attract students, nothing more.\u00a0\u00a0Other people&#8217;s experiences are theirs, not your kid&#8217;s.\u00a0 And,\u00a0family advisors are often biased toward\u00a0particular colleges, good or bad.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>For those reasons, don&#8217;t make the first time you\u00a0see\u00a0your kid&#8217;s campus\u00a0be when she moves in.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Your child will, hopefully, be spending four years at a college.\u00a0 She&#8217;ll be\u00a0waking up in a dorm,\u00a0walking to classes, sitting in classrooms, visiting professors in their offices, eating two or three times a day in the cafeteria,\u00a0communicating with administrators, and spending a lot of time in\u00a0the coach&#8217;s office and working out in the\u00a0facilities.\u00a0 She&#8217;ll only be coming home\u00a0four or five times all\u00a0year.\u00a0 Her college essentially will become her home.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.nsr-inc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Girl-on-campus-5.jpg\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.nsr-inc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Girl-on-campus-7.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-3016\" title=\"Girl on campus 7\" src=\"\/\/blog.nsr-inc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Girl-on-campus-7.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"292\" height=\"211\" \/><\/a>A cursory, one-time examination of\u00a0a campus and interaction with its people\u00a0should not be enough\u00a0to\u00a0confidently make a decision about where your\u00a0kid goes to school.\u00a0\u00a0Put more effort\u00a0into it and\u00a0demand that your kid\u00a0do the same.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Our best advice is that you and your kid should spend a full weekend\u00a0on or around the campus and do the following:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Go to\u00a0a morning class in her intended major.<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0Afterward, talk to\u00a0a student and instructor.\u00a0\u00a0Prepare two or three questions for each\u00a0intended to give your kid\u00a0more info to consider.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Go to three meals in one day at the cafeteria.<\/strong>\u00a0 The\u00a0quality of the food\u00a0and cleanliness are\u00a0important, yes, but watch carefully how and where the students congregate,\u00a0socialize and\u00a0treat one another as well as the\u00a0professors which may be eating there as well.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Sit in a high traffic area around lunch time.<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0Again, observe how the students\u00a0seem to be responding to their surroundings.\u00a0 Pick out a student\u00a0ask a couple of prepared questions\u00a0and discuss any concerns or\u00a0observations\u00a0which you may have noticed.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.nsr-inc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Girl-on-campus-6.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-3013\" title=\"Girl on campus 6\" src=\"\/\/blog.nsr-inc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Girl-on-campus-6.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"234\" height=\"338\" \/><\/a>Visit the counselor&#8217;s office.<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0Find out how the school supports students academically and socially.\u00a0 Discuss how the administration\u00a0views\u00a0the athletic department, athletes and\u00a0in particular her coach and the team.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Walk around the campus after sundown.<\/strong>\u00a0 Does it\u00a0feel safe?\u00a0 Are there emergency outlets for students around campus?\u00a0 Are there a number of students walking around in the evening?\u00a0\u00a0Do you see campus security?\u00a0<\/li>\n<li><strong>Visit the local town during the daytime.<\/strong>\u00a0 Go into the stores, the bank and restaurants.\u00a0 Talk to owners and managers about the campus, the students and the relationship the town has with the college.\u00a0 Get a sense of\u00a0its proximity to the campus and if it\u00a0offers the types of add-ons which are important to your child.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li><strong>Talk to a current\u00a0freshman on the team and then to a current upperclassman.<\/strong>\u00a0 Ask specific questions which\u00a0require thoughtful answers.\u00a0\u00a0Try to get to the essence of\u00a0who the coach is and if his or her teaching methods and coaching\u00a0style\u00a0will motivate your kid to perform at her best.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li><strong>Meet with the coaches individually.<\/strong>\u00a0 Talk about their histories and their\u00a0own futures.\u00a0 Try to get a\u00a0good feel for who they are as people.\u00a0 And,\u00a0be very clear about their coaching philosophy and plans for your kid\u00a0as an incoming freshman.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These suggestions\u00a0should initiate your thoughts to run\u00a0toward\u00a0a thorough discovery adventure at the colleges your kid is seriously considering.\u00a0 With this approach, it is highly unlikely that your child will make a bad decision about which college is the best choice for her.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Getting On Campuses Should Be a High Priority Look at your kid&#8217;s\u00a0search\u00a0for a college scholarship this way &#8212; it&#8217;s a hands-on, face-to-face\u00a0discovery process.\u00a0 Nothing replaces your kid visiting college campuses and meeting the people who work and reside there.\u00a0 No Web site, friend or advisor&#8217;s opinion, or sweet talk from an admission counselor\u00a0handing out candy &#8230; <a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nsr-inc.com\/scouting-news\/the-parents-recruiting-guide-part-iv-campus-visits\/\">Read 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